My approach to therapy

I believe that therapy should be tailored to you, and your needs. This means that I often integrate concepts, and skills from a variety of therapeutic models.

  • CBT is a practical, evidence-based therapy that focuses on the connection between our thoughts, feelings, and behaviours. It helps you notice unhelpful patterns in how you think about yourself or your situation, and supports you to develop new ways of responding.

    Together, we look at what keeps certain difficulties going, such as worry, OCD, low mood, or self-criticism , and find small, meaningful changes that can improve how you feel day to day.

    CBT can be especially helpful if you want to; understand your difficulties more clearly, challenge your negative thinking, develop coping skills, problem solve and learn tools to manage your difficulties both now and in the future.

  • CFT is an evidence-based approach which uses ideas from CBT to build our self-compassion. It is especially useful for individuals with high levels of self-criticism, perfectionism, anxiety and trauma.

    Often CFT is also used for those that may have previously had CBT but struggled to believe their changed thoughts.

    CFT works to develop your skills in directing compassion towards yourself. This is done by exploring why you may struggle to accept compassion, understanding your emotions and why they are there and reducing negative self-talk, shame, self-blame and self-criticism.

  • DBT skills focus on helping you regulate your emotions, manage intense emotions, build healthier relationships, and cope more effectively with distress. The skills are practical and can be used in everyday life to bring a greater sense of balance and control.

    Key areas of DBT include learning how to calm strong emotions, be more present in the moment, communicate your needs clearly, and handle difficult situations without making things worse. These skills can be especially helpful if you often feel overwhelmed by emotions or find it hard to manage conflict or stress.

  • Although I work with individuals rather than families, I draw on ideas from Systemic Family Therapy to help make sense of how our relationships and early environments shape the way we see ourselves and respond to others.

    These ideas can help us explore how patterns of communication, roles within families, or unspoken expectations might still influence your wellbeing today. Understanding these patterns can offer new perspectives on distress and open up possibilities for change in how you relate to yourself and those around you.

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  • Anxiety

  • Depression

  • Struggles with eating

  • Trauma

  • Low self-esteem

  • Perfectionism

  • High self-criticism and/or self-blame

  • Perinatal Loss

  • OCD

Please note this is not an exhaustive list. Mental health struggles rarely happen in isolation. It’s common for one difficulty to link to another , for example, trauma and low self-esteem feeding anxiety, or perfectionism leading to exhaustion and low mood. These patterns often make sense when we look at how we learned to cope or care for others in our early environments.

What struggles do I work with?

Testimonials

“When I met Rebecca… I was at the end of my rope I lost all hope that I would ever feel better again and to some extent I probably won't ever feel "normal" again. However, what Rebecca did for me is what 99% of people out there with mental health problems need…I always walked away with a new tool to support myself going forward. When you've got a person who has absolutely no idea how to gather their thoughts let alone voice them to a therapist accurately it is near on impossible to stay on track and keep to the point of that day but Rebecca did. The best way I can describe what Rebecca does and should not only be commended but taught to others... is having the ability to follow my brain and just go with it, discuss it and flip it! That is something truly amazing.”

“The therapist who I worked with, Rebecca Ades, is truly the best therapist I've had. From the beginning, Rebecca was very transparent in terms of how she practices; it's a conversation, not just one-sided. And that very much aligns with what I find most effective for me, personally. The practices and exercises that Rebecca recommended were all very helpful, and in general, she is very knowledgeable in terms of providing guidance and exercises to help me manage my thoughts and emotions.”

Fees

Consultation

I believe finding the right therapist for you is often trial and error, which is why I offer a free, 20 minute, online consultation to meet, explore your struggles and how we may work together, and for you to ask me any questions you may have.

Individual Sessions

I currently only offer online therapy on weekday evenings.

Individual sessions are 50 minutes and are priced at £80 per session.

Let’s work together

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